Hot Heavenly Embodiment
Unlock f*ck yes confidence, magnetism & feel-good states with Sex Magick.
This has changed my life. Not just in feeling hot and confident, but in helping me manifest a dreamy life, heal from past trauma, work through triggers, resolve my anxious attachment, connect deeper to my intuition and spirit guides, feel radiant in my physical body, unlock crazy confidence in my sexuality and sexual self...
Right now, you may feel...
⚡️Kind of crusty and not super confident... you either feel like you're in a slump or you've had a hard time feeling sparkly, sexy and main character.
⚡️Supppperrr awkward even THINKING about your orgasm and your turn ons... this brings sticky feelings around pleasure and asking for pleasure.
⚡️Disconnected to your body. You either hyper criticize it, or you just don't pay attention to your bodily cues.
⚡️Like you live verrry much in your head.. it's hard to feel connected to your emotions and your body.
⚡️Like your triggers are running the show. Every time a trigger comes up, you feel set back for hours or DAYS.
⚡️A little crusty and lackluster.. you KNOW you're hot stuff, but you feel kind of meh. Or, you want to feel like HOT STUFF but you've never known what that's like.
⚡️Like you've tried the manifesting things... journaling, tapping, robotic affirmations, but they don't seem to be moving the needle.
⚡️Sort of bored with rituals and practices.. you want to explore something FUN yet POWERFUL.
And you'd MUCH rather feel...
💖No longer in comparison of your beauty, gifts and purpose... you feel inspired by YOU.
💖Waaay more confidence and pleasure in connecting to your body. Connecting feels less scary, you feel deeper curiosity and kindness.
💖An authority of your emotions; triggers no longer take a toll, you now feel empowered by how you can use your emotions feel better.
💖Far less shame and shyness around your sexuality, your orgasm, desires and turn ons. You now know they all fueellll your life!
💖Instead of feeling crusty and low all day, you can tap into yourself to remember how hot AF you are and feel immediate shifts.
💖You feel less afraid to process triggers, traumas and emotions, because you know how goooood it feels sex magick makes you feel.
💖Empowered by the fact you KNOW your body is physical evidence of how magical and dope you are.
What is Sex Magick?
So... you're probably like wait.. what the heck is Sex Magick?
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I believe the simplest way I can put it is...
Using emotions to guide your mind, body and spirit into pleasurable states of being.
I see and know Sex Magick as...
🫧Using your horny energy to relieve your anxiety;
🫧Bringing intention to your orgasm to manifest (feelings states or tangible);
🫧Grinding in the kitchen to hype yourself up for a date;
🫧Harnessing the emotions around your desires and discovering how you can use this desire to turn you on;
🫧Having self-pleasure be an offering to the Goddess/God
🫧Screaming and crying into a pillow and holding yourself afterwards
🫧Feeling inspired by your grief and creating art.
Sex Magick is a way for you to feel deliciously alive & magnetic... this is because your emotional states are activating, & activation is energy, our energy is creative. When you see energy as a force of creation & opportunity, rather than a burden, you begin to tap into creative life force energy, which is the energy in which we are all made from. Instead of seeing our emotions & body as oppressive, sex magick is choosing to come alive & create a better day, reality & life.
What I will teach you...
How to tap into your f*ck yes confidence through sex magick rituals.
How to confidently navigate emotions, but also, how to move into your body to feeeeeeel.
How to heal past trauma, sexual shame and move through triggers through sex magick.
How to manifest either desired feeling states—clarity, f*ck yes confidence, joy—or bring tangible manifestations into reality.
How to connect deeper to your intuition & spirit guides.
How to use sex magick for deeeeep rituals or super super simple practices that take minutes.
How to incorporate it into your daily life.
Run of show...
A Telegram group chat. My intention is for this to be a super playful, low key space with high frequency impact & expansion!!! I want this to be the group chat you are obsessed with being a part of and engaging in.
Everything can be self-paced. Listen to teachings in no specific order, and listen whenever you are free!!
Content
🔮ALEX CHANNEL🔮
2-3 teachings per week. All intuitive downloads, channeled messages.
🔮SEXY SUPPORT🔮
Tons of support—journal prompts, simple and highly effective guided meditations, along with related media (books, podcasts, music, etc.)
🔮HOTTIE HUB🔮
Group chat for everyone to connect and support one another, share experiences, on teachings, tools and how it’s inspiring you!!!!
🔮Q&A/READINGS🔮
Opportunities to ask me any and all questions about the teachings & practices 1X a month. And, you'll receive BEAUTY readings! Which are all about tapping into your unique soul beauty blueprint, and how your soul + physical beauty comes alive in your existence.
🔮ANNONCEMENTS🔮
Here I will announce dates for all readings, Q&A’s, and additional teachings, along with housekeeping.
🔮MANIFESTATIONS & WINS🔮
Sex Magick, you are literally stepping into your insane magnetism.. you will expand into a delicious version of you, but also become a manifestation machine. We must must share and celebrate our magic!
How Sex Magick as changed MY life...
❤️🔥Getting out of a toxic romantic relationship that would have lasted 2 years (my spirit guides said), but only lasted a month. Post-ritual it legit ended in days.
❤️🔥Healing from friendship and romantic relationship trauma & any kind of painful dynamic.
❤️🔥Feeling like a baddie main character and totally embracing my unique beauty.
❤️🔥Moving out of my 500sqft studio apartment into my DREAM APARTMENT which is literally 2bdroom in a safe, delicious neighborhood by the beach
❤️🔥Coming into union with spiritual women IN PERSON for the first time
❤️🔥Stepping deeper and deeper into clarity around my purpose (i literally was a grief & death doula only months ago…. and I was turning ugly and gray in the face).
❤️🔥Healing my anxious attachment that has been killlinngggg meeeee for years
❤️🔥Feeling sooooo confident in my body, after years of brutal judgement, despair and scrutinizing from the age of 14 - 27.
❤️🔥Discovering empowerment in my sexuality, my sexual turn ons, my lust and desires—allowing me to flirt with the universe, and flirt with life, instead of being ashamed of this inherent part of me.
❤️🔥Manifesting my soulmate dog
❤️🔥Feeling deeper ease, trust and confidence in the certainty of my future husband. I use to feel so so anxious and hopeless around this, but sex magick has allowed me to feel FINALLY like, okay, this exists. I trust this desire for a soulmate love.
❤️🔥Feeling insanely connected to my spirit guides.
❤️🔥A deeper trust in my physical body—not only in it’s cues, in it’s desires, or flare ups, but also in TRUSTING MYSELF, TO ACTUALLY ACT ON INTUITION.
❤️🔥Faarrrrrr less shame around pleasure—not only asking for pleasure in the bedroom, but giving myself pleasure, and to desiring pleasure in my everyday life!
Hot Heavenly Embodiment is birthed from many years of feeling insecure, sticky and disconnected to my intuition, my beauty and body. Sex Magick has done nothing but changing my life; I've become my most magnetic, creative, joyful, authentic, grounded self... Way too many beautiful things have happened bringing it into my life. I can't help but share this beauty with YOU. We all deserve to feel this way.
My name is Alexandra Shelly—I’m a psychic medium, writer, reiki master, integrative trauma practitioner, sex magick guide, tarot baddie, & current masters student in clinical psychology to eventually become a licensed therapist!
I have been doing mediumship for 5 years now. This journey has been quite undulating.. figuring out where I belong and what space I want to create. I’d say I’m a brilliant blend of sparkly, magical, fairy vibes and the practical, grounded, desire to be HERE and now.
For years, I felt completely buzzed out, out of my body, anxious af, disassociated, disembodied, inflamed (lol), insecure, and second fiddle, for so many damn years. Over time I began to feel more confident in my beauty and self, but it was in 2022 when a very close friend and magical practitioner, Kayla Rose, introduced me to Sex Magick. I began my journey in 2023, legit the day I broke up with my boyfriend. I spent 7 days doing ritual 2X a day, connecting deeper with my body, orgasm and spirit. It was a spiritual and sexual awakening.
I also have known I’m meant to my work differently. For instance, not just be any kind of medium, but someone that goes deeper… hence going back to school, even becoming trauma certified. I drink cacao daily, channel write my spirit guides, connect with goddesses, but I also take prescription meds for OCD and ADD. We keep it real in this house.
I wanted to make a space that make me sparkle from the inside out. I also knew that my work is meant to be regenerative… yes, I’ll have big days, but I refuse to do work that burns me out. Recently, I was doing death/grief doula work and I was actually dyiinnnggg. It’s amazing and what I did was incredible, and I had incredible clients, but I was turning gray in the face. Right before all of it was going to blow up, I knew I couldn’t do it full time. I had to follow my intuition.
I haven’t mastered many things.. but I’d say one thing I’ve become quite an expert at is INTUITION…. Intuition has led me back to me. Intuition has never failed me. Intuition led me to the spirit world, which has also led me back to me. Intuition and spirit have been my guiding lights, and have been the reason why I can’t get enough of life.
